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MTHFR Gene Variants and ADHD: Separating Science From Supplement Sales
What the MTHFR gene actually does, what research shows about MTHFR and ADHD, who profits from the supplement pitch, and what to ask your child's doctor instead.

Shane Thrapp
5 min read


Heavy Metal Detoxes and Neurodivergence: Why the Research Doesn't Say What You've Been Told
What studies on heavy metals in ADHD and Autism actually found, why detox supplements don't follow from them, the real risks, and what to do if you're worried.

Shane Thrapp
5 min read


Parasite Cleanses and Your Neurodivergent Child: What the Research Actually Shows
Parasite cleanses are sold as a fix for ADHD and Autism. Here's what the studies actually found, why the context matters, and what to do if you're worried.

Shane Thrapp
3 min read


Why Is My Child Refusing Everything? Burnout, PDA, and ODD Explained
Burnout, PDA, and ODD can look alike when your child refuses everything, but each one needs a different approach. Learn how to tell them apart and what helps.

Shane Thrapp
9 min read


How ADHD Medications Really Work: What Parents Need to Know
How stimulants and non-stimulants work, when kids start them, what a medication trial looks like, how to handle crashes, and why meds are only the start.

Shane Thrapp
10 min read


Stimulants Don't Fix Attention, They Make Tasks Feel More Rewarding
A 2024 study found ADHD stimulants act on reward and wakefulness, not attention. Learn what that means for your child and why sleep matters just as much.

Shane Thrapp
5 min read


Why Does Your Child Fall Apart the Moment They Get Home From School?
Your child holds it together at school and falls apart at home. Learn why after-school restraint collapse happens and what neurodivergent kids need at the door.

Shane Thrapp
6 min read


The Missing Pieces: Why Neurodivergence Treatment Needs Therapy and Parent Coaching
Medication is the foundation, not the whole plan. Learn what therapy, parent coaching, and your own support add, and how the pieces work together for your kid.

Shane Thrapp
6 min read


Your Child Isn't Being Disrespectful: Understanding the Difference Between Dysregulation and Behavioral Disorders
What looks like disrespect is often dysregulation or a behavioral disorder. See how ADHD, Autism, PDA, and ODD shape behavior and which parenting styles help.

Shane Thrapp
10 min read


What Actually Works for ADHD Kids (And Why Traditional Parenting Sometimes Doesn't)
Strict parenting often backfires with ADHD. Learn how medication, therapy, coaching, and lifestyle support work together, and what to know about addiction risk.

Shane Thrapp
6 min read


Medicated and Still Struggling: What Parents Miss About ADHD
ADHD medication helps your child focus, but it doesn't build skills. Learn where the real bottleneck is and what support turns better focus into real progress.

Shane Thrapp
6 min read


Sleep, Neurodivergence, and Why Your Kid Won't Go to Bed
Up to 80% of neurodivergent kids struggle with sleep. Learn how ADHD, Autism, and AuDHD disrupt it, the trouble with melatonin, and what helps your child rest.

Shane Thrapp
8 min read


Your Child's Meltdowns Aren't Behavior Problems: Understanding and Managing Meltdowns
Your child's meltdowns aren't behavior problems. Learn what happens in their brain during a meltdown, how co-regulation helps, and how to spot the early signs.

Shane Thrapp
10 min read


The Truth About Autism, Tylenol, and Political Fearmongering
Autism existed long before Tylenol. What the research on acetaminophen in pregnancy shows, why Autism diagnoses are rising, and the harm fearmongering does.

Shane Thrapp
9 min read


Why Traditional Consequences Fail Neurodivergent Kids (And What Works Instead)
Consequences often fail neurodivergent kids because their brains handle time and cause and effect differently. The CARE framework shows what teaches instead.

Shane Thrapp
9 min read


Age-Appropriate Independence Building for Neurodivergent Children
A stage-by-stage guide to building independence in ADHD and Autistic kids from age 4 to adulthood, with ways to teach self-advocacy and problem-solving.

Shane Thrapp
7 min read


The Hidden Dangers of Over-Protecting Your Neurodivergent Child
Coddling a neurodivergent child can feel like support, but it can build helplessness and explosive behavior. Learn how to build independence with support.

Shane Thrapp
5 min read


Building Healthy Family Screen Time: A Practical Guide for Parents
Screen time isn't all good or all bad. Learn age-appropriate limits, how to curate safe content, and how to use screens to support routines and family time.

Shane Thrapp
10 min read


Why CBD Products Can Be Dangerous
CBD is marketed to parents of ADHD and Autistic kids, but many products are mislabeled or contaminated. Learn the risks for developing brains and what works.

Shane Thrapp
8 min read


Supplements for ADHD: Separating Science from Snake Oil
Omega-3, magnesium, saffron, methylfolate, and melatonin: what the research says about popular ADHD supplements, when testing helps, and what works better.

Shane Thrapp
10 min read
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