Podcasts and media

There's a lot of ADHD and autism content out there, and plenty of it is wrong. These are the podcasts, channels, and sites I'd send a client to, with who's behind each one so you know where the information is coming from.

Podcasts

Shane's pick

ADHD Aha! (Understood.org)

Laura Key · Understood VP of content strategy; has ADHD

Each episode is one person describing the moment they realized they, or their kid, had ADHD. Laura Key hosts, has ADHD herself, and lets guests tell it their way. It's stories, not instruction. If you're late-diagnosed, newly diagnosed, or still sitting with the question, hearing other people's version of your own moment does something a symptom list doesn't.

Shane's pick

ADHD Essentials

Brendan Mahan · MEd, MS; former teacher; author of Overcoming the Wall of Awful

Brendan Mahan built the Wall of Awful model, which explains why starting a task can feel physically impossible, and I do contract work with him. His show covers ADHD, anxiety, and autism with expert guests, and it keeps coming back to shame and getting started. Releases are irregular. If you've run out of patience with yourself, whether you're an adult, a parent, or a teacher, start here.

Shane's pick

ADHD Experts Podcast (ADDitude)

Rotating expert presenters · Credentialed clinicians and researchers per episode

This is ADDitude's expert webinar series as a podcast, and every episode brings in a new speaker who is an expert in their field. One topic an episode, taught by somebody who works on that exact thing. Medication decisions. Emotional regulation. Parenting. How ADHD actually works. The slides are posted with each one. The audio quality depends on the webinar. Go anyway. An hour with the person who studies the thing beats a month of summaries.

Shane's pick

Divergent Conversations

Megan Anna Neff; Patrick Casale · Therapists; both AuDHD

Megan Anna Neff and Patrick Casale are two AuDHD therapists, and they talk about autistic and ADHD adult life from inside it and from the clinical side at once. Burnout, masking and unmasking, and what AuDHD is when it isn't two diagnoses stapled together. The show may not return, so treat it as an archive. For AuDHD and autistic adults, and the clinicians who work with them.

Shane's pick

Hacking Your ADHD

William Curb · Has ADHD; credentials not stated

Short, practical episodes you can actually finish.

William Curb keeps his episodes short and aimed at one thing at a time: getting started, time, habits, focus. He has ADHD and tests the techniques on himself, and brings in clinicians now and then to check the reasoning. His credentials aren't stated. For adults who want something they can try this week without sitting through an hour of backstory.

Shane's pick

Men's ADHD Support Group

Marc Almodovar; Shane Thrapp · Coach and speaker; ADHD life coach

Marc and I host this one for the Men's ADHD Support Group, the nonprofit where I run operations. We talk with men about what ADHD does to a marriage, a temper, and a sense of who you are, and we bring in expert guests on the same topics our support calls keep circling back to. It's for men who have never heard another man say any of this out loud. Episodes are irregular.

Shane's pick

Sorry, I Missed This (Understood.org)

Cate Osborn · Certified sex educator and ADHD advocate

ADHD and relationships from someone living it, with zero shame and a lot of humor.

Cate Osborn is a certified sex educator with ADHD, and her show is about what ADHD does inside a relationship: communication, intimacy, sex, and the arguments that repeat. She says the parts most ADHD content skips. She's a creator, not a clinician. For couples where one or both partners have ADHD, and single adults trying to work out why dating keeps going the same way.

Shane's pick

The ADHD Social Playbook

Caroline Maguire · MEd; author and social skills coach

The friendship person. Social skills taught like skills, not character.

Caroline Maguire is a social skills coach with a master's in education, and her show is about friendship and connection for neurodivergent adults. How to read a room, keep a friendship going, say the thing you meant to say. For ADHD, autistic, and AuDHD adults who know they want people in their lives and keep losing the thread on how.

Shane's pick

The Autism ADHD Podcast

Holly Blanc Moses · Licensed clinician (titles vary by source); AuDHD

For parents and teachers of Autistic and ADHD kids who want the practical school-and-home version.

Holly Blanc Moses is a licensed clinician and AuDHD herself, and her show is for the adults around autistic and ADHD kids: parents, teachers, and therapists. Behavior, school, and what it looks like when autism and ADHD show up in the same kid at the same time. Her exact license title varies across pages, and her BCBA credential may concern some autistic advocates. For the people raising and teaching those kids.

Shane's pick

Translating ADHD

Asher Collins; Dusty Chipura · ADHD coaches with lived experience

Asher Collins and Dusty Chipura are ADHD coaches who have ADHD, and their show covers the condition at work, in business, and in the daily routines that hold both up. They translate, which is the right word: what's happening in the brain and what to do about it at your desk. There hasn't been a new episode in over four months. For adults with ADHD running a career or a company.

ADHD for Smart Ass Women

Tracy Otsuka · Certified ADHD coach; lawyer

Tracy Otsuka is a certified ADHD coach and a lawyer, and her show is for women with ADHD, many of them diagnosed well into adulthood. She talks about identity, shame, and what it means to find out as an adult that the thing you called a character flaw had a name. It leans hard on strengths. If you were missed as a girl because you were quiet and got good grades, you'll hear yourself in it.

ADHD-ish

Diann Wingert · MSW; former licensed psychotherapist; ADHD business coach

Diann Wingert spent years as a licensed psychotherapist before becoming an ADHD business coach, and the show is built for entrepreneurs with ADHD. Running a business, staying focused when nobody is making you, and the career questions underneath all of it. It has an explicit rating, and she sells a coaching program. Women who own a business and have ADHD will find it aimed squarely at them.

All Things ADHD (CHADD)

CHADD National Resource Center · Expert guests such as Mary Solanto, PhD

CHADD is the national ADHD organization, and this is their podcast. Interviews with researchers and clinicians, people like Mary Solanto, on how ADHD works, school, and how to think through medication. It's drier than the ADDitude one. It's also the one where the person talking is usually the person behind the research. That's why I send people to it.

AuDHD Flourishing

Mattia Maurée · AuDHD coach

Mattia Maurée is an AuDHD coach, and the show is about adult AuDHD life with the research and the lived experience side by side. Burnout, identity, and how autism and ADHD pull against each other inside the same person. For AuDHD adults who have found plenty on autism and plenty on ADHD and almost nothing on having both.

Autism Dadcast

Gaz and Andy · Two dads of autistic kids

Gaz and Andy are two UK dads of autistic kids, and the show is the two of them talking straight about raising them. Behavior, family life, and school, including the British system and how to deal with it. It's explicit, and it's UK-specific: EHCPs, SEND, the NHS. For fathers who want blunt company more than expert instruction.

Faster Than Normal

Peter Shankman · Entrepreneur and author; no clinical credentials

Peter Shankman is an entrepreneur and author with ADHD, and his interviews treat the condition as something you can build a career on, not around. The guests lean toward business, with psychiatrists in the mix. The gift framing is strong, and he has no clinical credentials. For working adults with ADHD who want to hear from people who made it work in a boardroom instead of a clinic.

Full-Tilt Parenting

Debbie Reber · Author; no clinical credentials

Debbie Reber has interviewed more than 500 experts for parents of neurodivergent and twice-exceptional kids. Behavior, school, demand avoidance, the kid who is gifted and struggling at the same time. She's an author with no clinical credentials, and some guests fall outside mainstream evidence, so judge by episode. For parents who have read everything and still feel like nobody is describing their kid.

I Have ADHD Podcast

Kristen Carder · Certified coach; not a medical professional

Kristen Carder is a certified coach, not a medical professional, and her weekly episodes run like a coaching session on one topic: emotional regulation, work, marriage, and the shame that sits under all three. She promotes her paid program. For adults who want to hear a coach work through a problem the way it comes up in real life, not hand over a list of tips.

Neurodiversity Podcast

Emily Kircher-Morris · Licensed professional counselor; ADHD and autistic

Emily Kircher-Morris is a licensed professional counselor who is ADHD and autistic, and her show covers neurodivergent and twice-exceptional kids and adults for families, educators, and clinicians. Gifted and struggling at once, school, and who you are when the labels stack up. For parents and teachers of 2e kids, and the adults who used to be those kids.

Taking Control: The ADHD Podcast

Nikki Kinzer; Pete Wright · ADHD coach (credential per secondary source)

Nikki Kinzer and Pete Wright keep their show on everyday life: habits, time, keeping your space from swallowing you, getting work done. Nothing exotic, and that's the point. For adults with ADHD who are tired of the big picture and want help with the ordinary week.

The ADHD Parenting Podcast

Ryan Wexelblatt; Mike McLeod · LCSW, ADHD-CCSP; SLP

Ryan Wexelblatt is a clinical social worker certified in ADHD, and Mike McLeod is a speech-language pathologist. Together they give parents of kids and teens with ADHD strategies on behavior, executive function, and how to think about medication, in enough detail to go home and run it. Some directories list it as The ADHD Guys Podcast. For parents, and especially dads, who want practical instruction from clinicians instead of reassurance.

The Autism Dad

Rob Gorski · Father of three autistic sons; no professional credentials

Rob Gorski is raising three autistic sons, and his podcast is autism parenting from the dad's chair, with clinicians and autistic adults as guests. Behavior, family dynamics, and the day-to-day of a household built around autism. He has no professional credentials. For dads of autistic kids who want to hear another father talk about it without pretending it's easy.

The DadDHD Podcast

Shane Thrapp; Braden Young · Certified ADHD life coaches

Braden Young and I are both certified ADHD coaches, and both dads with ADHD. We sit down and talk about fatherhood with this brain. The mental load. The marriage. The kids. What changes when a diagnosis lands in the middle of all of it. If you're the dad in your house who keeps dropping the ball, you're not the only one. There are two of us on the recording doing it too.

The Neurodivergent Entrepreneur

Patrick Casale · Therapist; AuDHD

Patrick Casale is an AuDHD therapist who runs his own business, and this show is for other neurodivergent people doing the same. The two main subjects are running a company when your brain doesn't do routine, and burnout. For entrepreneurs who are autistic, ADHD, or both.

The Neurodivergent Woman

Monique Mitchelson; Michelle Livock · Clinical psychologist; clinical neuropsychologist

Monique Mitchelson is a clinical psychologist and Michelle Livock is a clinical neuropsychologist, both in Australia, and across seven seasons they cover autism and ADHD in women. Masking, late diagnosis, and what AuDHD looks like when it was missed for decades because the person was a girl. The show ended in June 2025 and no new season has been announced. For women who are autistic, ADHD, or both, and got overlooked for most of their lives.

Uniquely Human: The Podcast

Barry Prizant; Dave Finch · PhD, CCC-SLP; autistic author

Barry Prizant is a speech-language pathologist with a PhD and Dave Finch is an autistic author, and their show puts autistic voices at the center of every conversation about autism. Understanding autism, communication, and identity come up most. For parents and clinicians who want to hear autistic people describe autism, and for autistic adults who are tired of being described.

Women & ADHD

Katy Weber · Diagnosed at 45; offers coaching

Katy Weber was diagnosed at 45, and every episode is an interview with another woman who found out as an adult. The conversations cover late diagnosis, the identity shift that follows, and hormones and menopause, a piece of ADHD most shows never touch. She sells coaching. If you suspect, or just learned, that this explains the last few decades, start here.

Single episodes

Shane's pick

ADHD and Emotions in Men: Marc Almodovar's Story (ADHD Aha!)

Laura Key; Marc Almodovar · Host and MASG founder

Laura Key sits down with Marc Almodovar, who founded the Men's ADHD Support Group where I run operations, and he tells his own story: late diagnosis and what ADHD did to his emotions before he had a word for it. If you learned early to swallow everything and are only now finding out why that never worked, you'll hear a lot of yourself.

Shane's pick

Masculinity, Not Mask-u-linity (ADDA TADD Talks 2023)

Men's ADHD Support Group panel · Panel

Our panel from the Men's ADHD Support Group gave this ADDA TADD Talk in 2023 on masculinity and masking. What men with ADHD hide to look like they have it together, what that costs, and who you are once you stop. It's one talk, for men who have been performing fine for a long time.

Shane's pick

The Hidden Complexities of Men With ADHD (ADDitude #581)

Brendan Mahan; Shane Thrapp; Jesse J. Anderson; Ky Westcott; Marc Almodovar · Panel

Five of us, Brendan Mahan, Jesse J. Anderson, Ky Westcott, Marc Almodovar, and me, sat down for an ADDitude roundtable on how ADHD shows up in men. Identity, emotional regulation, and marriage, from five men who live it and work in it. It's one episode, built for a man who hasn't heard this talked about yet.

Fathering With ADHD (CHADD All Things ADHD)

Carey Heller, PsyD · Psychologist

Carey Heller is a psychologist, and in this CHADD episode he takes on fathering when the father is the one with ADHD. Behavior, family dynamics, and what it's like to run a household when your own executive function is part of the problem. For dads with ADHD raising kids, with or without ADHD of their own.

YouTube channels

Shane's pick

ADDitude Magazine

ADDitude · Consumer health publication with a medical advisory panel

The biggest library out there. Look at who wrote each piece, and trace the big claims back to the source.

ADDitude posts replays of its expert webinars here, to about 106,000 subscribers. Clinicians and researchers on how ADHD works, medication, and parenting, one topic per video. Quality varies by guest. For adults, parents, and professionals who would rather watch an hour with the slides on screen than listen to the audio.

Shane's pick

Dr. Hallowell

Edward M. Hallowell, MD · Psychiatrist; author of Driven to Distraction and ADHD 2.0

Edward Hallowell is a psychiatrist and wrote Driven to Distraction and ADHD 2.0, two of the best-known books on the subject. His channel is his commentary on ADHD and mental health: how it works, identity, parenting. The framing leans hard on strengths. For adults and parents who read the books and want to hear the author talk it through.

Shane's pick

How to ADHD

Jessica McCabe · Not a trained professional (per her site); research staff and consultant listed

The channel a lot of adults watched right before they said "Oh. Wait, that's me."

Jessica McCabe has close to two million subscribers, and she got there by sourcing her explainers from research and having staff check the work. How ADHD works, focus, getting started, emotional regulation, and what to do the week after a diagnosis. Her site says she's not a trained professional. If you just got diagnosed, or you're a teenager, watch this before you read anything on social media.

Shane's pick

Kojo Sarfo, DNP

Kojo Sarfo · Psychiatric nurse practitioner and psychotherapist; diagnosed with ADHD

A psychiatric nurse practitioner who makes adult ADHD and medication make sense in a couple of minutes.

Kojo Sarfo is a psychiatric nurse practitioner and psychotherapist who was diagnosed with ADHD himself. His channel, about 336,000 subscribers, covers adult ADHD and the stigma around mental health, mostly in short videos. Spot-check the symptom lists, because short-form can oversimplify. For men with ADHD who have never seen a prescriber say he has it too.

Shane's pick

Lives in the Balance

Ross Greene, PhD · Psychologist; creator of Collaborative & Proactive Solutions

Ross Greene created Collaborative & Proactive Solutions, and this channel teaches it: how to work with a kid whose behavior keeps blowing up instead of trying to punish it out of him. Meltdowns, explosive behavior, and school. It isn't specific to ADHD or autism. For parents and teachers of a kid who has already failed every sticker chart in the house.

Shane's pick

Men's ADHD Support Group

Men's ADHD Support Group (nonprofit) · 501(c)(3) nonprofit

Mine. A place for men to talk about this out loud, which most of us were never allowed to do.

The Men's ADHD Support Group is the nonprofit I run operations for, and this is our video channel. Men with ADHD talking about identity, emotional regulation, and what ADHD actually is, in front of a camera instead of inside a closed support call. For men who want to see faces like theirs saying this out loud.

Shane's pick

Neurodivergent Insights

Megan Anna Neff, PsyD · AuDHD clinical psychologist

The best visual explanations of Autistic and AuDHD experience I've found, and the burnout workbook I hand clients.

Megan Anna Neff is an AuDHD clinical psychologist, and this channel is her on autistic, ADHD, and AuDHD adult life. Burnout, masking, and what AuDHD is as its own thing, not two labels. For AuDHD and autistic adults, late-diagnosed adults, and the clinicians who see them and want a psychologist's framing from inside the experience.

Shane's pick

Russell Barkley, PHD: Dedicated to ADHD Science+

Russell A. Barkley · PhD; retired professor of psychiatry

The science backbone. If you want to know why willpower isn't the problem, start here.

Russell Barkley is one of the most cited ADHD researchers there is, and this channel is where he lectures, at length, on the science. Executive function, medication, and what ADHD actually is underneath the symptom list. It's dense. Some of his positions, like the life-expectancy estimates, are debated, so take them as his views. For clinicians, coaches, parents, and adults willing to sit through the material to get the primary source.

Shane's pick

Seth Perler: Executive Function, ADHD, 2e

Seth Perler · Executive function coach; credentials not stated

Executive function for students, especially the gifted kid who's failing anyway.

Seth Perler is an executive function coach, and his channel is aimed at the adults around a struggling student: parents, teachers, other coaches. Executive function, school, and the gifted kid who can't get the homework turned in. He sells courses and a coach certification. For anyone watching a smart kid fail school and running out of explanations that aren't laziness.

Shane's pick

Understood

Understood.org · Nonprofit with expert reviewers

Free, plain-language, and trustworthy for parents and adults alike.

Understood.org is a nonprofit with expert reviewers behind its content, and its channel covers ADHD, dyslexia, and learning differences in short videos. How ADHD works, what happens at school, what a learning difference looks like from the inside. For parents and teachers trying to figure out a kid, and adults with ADHD who want the basics done right.

ADHD & Marriage

Melissa Orlov · Author of The ADHD Effect on Marriage; speaker on ADHD in relationships

Melissa Orlov wrote The ADHD Effect on Marriage, and this is her channel. She talks about the parent-child pattern that sets in when one partner ends up managing the other, and what a couple can do about it. She also runs a couples seminar and support groups, so the videos point somewhere. If you've had the same fight for years, start here.

ADHD Entrepreneur Accelerator

Steve August · ADHD coach and founder (per his show)

Steve August is an ADHD coach and founder, and this channel is for late-diagnosed people running businesses. Productivity shame, emotional regulation, keeping a company going when your brain won't cooperate. Some episodes are solo, some are interviews. He sells coaching alongside it, so know that going in.

ADHD Is the New Revolution

Stacey Machelle · Not a clinician or coach (self-described)

Stacey Machelle is a Black woman with ADHD, and her channel is her own experience of it, told as herself, not as a clinician or coach. Identity, and how race and ADHD land on top of each other in ways most ADHD content never mentions. For Black adults with ADHD, and women, who haven't seen themselves in the usual channels.

Agony Autie

Autistic woman advocate (UK) · Lived experience

Agony Autie is an autistic woman's channel from the UK, made for autistic women and for the parents and professionals around them. Understanding autism and identity are the center of it, told first person. It's small and less active now. For autistic women who want to hear from another autistic woman, not about one.

Autism From the Inside

Paul Micallef · Autistic life coach and trainer; diagnosed at 30

Paul Micallef is an autistic life coach and trainer, diagnosed at 30, and his channel, about 417,000 subscribers, is explainers for autistic adults and the people who suspect they might be. How autism works, late diagnosis, and friendships. Uploads have slowed. For men who have been wondering about themselves for years and haven't said it to anyone yet.

Child Mind Institute

Child Mind Institute · Nonprofit clinical organization

Child Mind Institute is a nonprofit clinical organization, and its channel is built for parents: ADHD, autism, anxiety, and the rest of youth mental health, explained by the people who treat it. For parents and teachers who want a clinical answer about what's going on with a kid, without the clinical bill.

Confident Parents, Capable Kids by ADHD Dude

Ryan Wexelblatt · LCSW, ADHD-CCSP

Ryan Wexelblatt is a clinical social worker certified in ADHD, and this channel is parent training: what to do with a kid who has ADHD, in enough detail to go do it. Behavior, executive function, and friendships, with a long history of focusing on boys. It isn't the unrelated @TheADHDDude. For parents, dads in particular, who want instruction instead of sympathy.

Dr. Tracey Marks

Tracey Marks, MD · Board-certified psychiatrist

Tracey Marks is a board-certified psychiatrist with a general adult mental health channel of about 2.4 million subscribers, and an ADHD playlist inside it. ADHD is one topic among many. She covers how ADHD works, anxiety, and medication decisions, from someone who prescribes. For adults with ADHD who want the psychiatry explained plainly, especially where ADHD and anxiety tangle together.

Gina Pera ADHD Roller Coaster

Gina Pera · Author of Is It You, Me, or Adult A.D.D.?

Gina Pera wrote Is It You, Me, or Adult A.D.D.?, and her channel has a nine-part series on adult ADHD and intimate relationships. It's long-form, so it's for the couple who wants to sit down and work through it together. Watch it with your partner, not instead of talking to them.

HealthyGamerGG

Alok Kanojia, MD (Dr. K) · Psychiatrist

Alok Kanojia is a psychiatrist, known as Dr. K, with about 3.5 million subscribers, most of them young men and gamers. ADHD is one subject among many, alongside motivation and mental health: why you can't start, why you blow up, what's going on underneath. Some of it draws on meditation frameworks. For young men and dads with ADHD who would never watch an ADHD channel but will watch this one.

I'm Autistic, Now What?

Meg · Late-diagnosed autistic and ADHD

Meg is late-diagnosed autistic and ADHD, in the UK, and her channel is the practical part of the weeks after a diagnosis: now what. She's open about working it out alongside her viewers, about 284,000 of them. She isn't a professional. For newly and late-diagnosed autistic and AuDHD adults who have the label and no instructions.

Orion Kelly: That Autistic Guy

Orion Kelly · Autistic advocate; credentials not verified

Orion Kelly is an autistic man in Australia, and his channel, about 227,000 subscribers, is support and validation for autistic people and the families around them. Identity, and what autism is from the inside. He isn't a clinician. For autistic adults, autistic dads, and parents of autistic kids who want to hear an autistic man say it plainly.

PurpleElla

Ella · Autistic and ADHD coach; founder of Purple Perspectives

Ella is an autistic and ADHD coach in the UK who founded Purple Perspectives, and her channel, about 98,000 subscribers, explains autistic and ADHD life from inside it. Sensory processing, identity, and what AuDHD is. She's a coach, not a clinician. For autistic and AuDHD adults, women especially, who want the sensory side taken seriously.

Rick Has ADHD (Formerly TotallyADD)

Rick Green · Producer of the documentary ADD and Loving It?!

Rick Green produced the documentary ADD and Loving It?!, and his channel mixes humor with expert interviews for adults who were diagnosed late. Late diagnosis, identity, and what it means to laugh at the thing that cost you decades. For adults, men especially, who found out late and need the funny version alongside the clinical one.

Sasha Hamdani MD

Sasha Hamdani, MD · Board-certified psychiatrist

Sasha Hamdani is a board-certified psychiatrist, and most of her ADHD content is short-form: one concept, a couple of minutes. Rejection sensitivity, medication, how ADHD works. She promotes her own app and books. For adults with ADHD, women in particular, who want a prescriber's take in the format they already scroll through every day.

Yo Samdy Sam

Samantha Stein · Psychology background; autistic, self-describes as AuDHD; author

Samantha Stein has a psychology background, is autistic and AuDHD, and makes careful explainers for adults who were diagnosed late, to about 209,000 subscribers. Late diagnosis, how autism works, and masking. Uploads have slowed. For autistic and AuDHD adults who just found out and want someone who slows down and gets it right.

Websites

Shane's pick

ADDitude

ADDitude (WebMD LLC) · Consumer health publication with a medical advisory panel

The biggest library out there. Look at who wrote each piece, and trace the big claims back to the source.

ADDitude is the biggest consumer ADHD publication there is, with a medical advisory panel behind it. It runs sections for adults, women, parents, and professionals, plus expert webinars on medication, parenting, and organizing your space. It's heavy on advertising, some supplement listicles aren't labeled as sponsored, and the reader surveys aren't prevalence data. Look at who wrote each piece.

Shane's pick

ADHD Marriage

Melissa Orlov · Author; couples seminars

Names the pattern that wrecks so many ADHD marriages: one partner's symptoms, the other's response, and the response to the response.

Melissa Orlov is an author who runs couples seminars on ADHD in marriage, and her site is the best-known resource built specifically for couples where one or both partners have ADHD. The forum is the heart of it: partners comparing notes on communication, resentment, and the chore wars with people in the same situation. The blog has slowed, and paid courses get heavy promotion.

Shane's pick

Inattentive ADHD Coalition

Cynthia Hammer · MSW; diagnosed with inattentive ADHD at 49

Inattentive ADHD is the type that gets missed, especially in girls and women. Nobody pushes harder to change that.

Cynthia Hammer was diagnosed with inattentive ADHD at 49, and this is the nonprofit she founded to push for earlier recognition of it, starting with girls, who are missed most often. It argues for screening every child before the end of second grade and screening the family members of diagnosed kids. The site has plain explainers on inattentive ADHD in children, adults, and girls and women, plus handouts, videos, a podcast, a newsletter, and FINDtheADHDgirls.org for parents. The questionnaires screen, they don't diagnose.

Shane's pick

Lives in the Balance

Ross Greene, PhD · Nonprofit; creator of Collaborative & Proactive Solutions

Ross Greene built Collaborative & Proactive Solutions, and Lives in the Balance is the nonprofit that gives its materials away free to parents and educators. The approach is for kids who melt down, explode, or dig in, and it starts from the idea that kids do well if they can. It isn't specific to ADHD or autism. If your child's behavior has been labeled defiant and punishment is making it worse, read this first.

Shane's pick

Men's ADHD Support Group Blog

Men's ADHD Support Group · 501(c)(3) nonprofit

I write for this blog and serve as Operations Director of the nonprofit behind it. The Men's ADHD Support Group is one of the few resources built specifically for men and dads with ADHD, and the posts come from coaches and from members writing about their own lives: identity, friendships, fatherhood, and the stuff men don't usually say out loud. Posting is irregular.

Shane's pick

Neurodivergent Insights

Megan Anna Neff, PsyD · AuDHD clinical psychologist

The best visual explanations of Autistic and AuDHD experience I've found, and the burnout workbook I hand clients.

Megan Anna Neff is a clinical psychologist who is herself AuDHD, and Neurodivergent Insights is her blog and set of visual guides on autistic, ADHD, and AuDHD adult life. She covers burnout, masking and unmasking, workplace accommodations, and how the two conditions overlap and pull against each other. She sells workbooks and trainings. If you suspect you're both, it explains what that feels like from the inside.

Shane's pick

Russell A. Barkley, PHD

Russell A. Barkley · PhD; retired professor of psychiatry

The science backbone. If you want to know why willpower isn't the problem, start here.

Russell Barkley is one of the most cited ADHD researchers alive, a retired professor of psychiatry, and his site holds his fact sheets on ADHD and executive function. They're dense, science-first, and written for clinicians, coaches, and parents who want the research and not a summary of it. The site is static and aging, and his sluggish cognitive tempo material is a contested position.

Shane's pick

The Vibe With Ky

Kyrus Keenan "Ky" Westcott · Lived experience; diagnosed with ADHD at 34

Funny, honest, and one of the few voices talking about ADHD and how Black men get misread.

Ky Westcott was diagnosed with ADHD in his mid-30s and talks about adult ADHD, anxiety, and introversion with humor and his own stories, in a podcast, a blog, and a newsletter. He also writes for ADDitude. The site runs live body-doubling sessions and sells his ADHD guidebooks. It's lived experience, not clinical guidance.

Shane's pick

Understood.org

Understood · Nonprofit; expert-reviewed

Free, plain-language, and trustworthy for parents and adults alike.

Understood is a nonprofit covering ADHD and learning differences, with every article reviewed by experts before it goes up. It splits cleanly between parents, educators, and adults, so a teacher looking at a 504 plan and a woman diagnosed at 40 both find pages written for them. Go there for school and workplace accommodations. The articles show no dates.

Shane's pick

William Dodson, MD (ADDitude Articles)

William W. Dodson, MD · Board-certified adult psychiatrist; Life Fellow, American Psychiatric Association

The psychiatrist who put rejection sensitivity on the map. Clear on medication too.

William Dodson is a board-certified adult psychiatrist who has specialized in adult ADHD for about 25 years and now mostly writes, speaks, and consults from Denver. His ADDitude page collects more than 120 articles and 17 webinars on medication and stimulant dosing, emotional dysregulation, rejection sensitive dysphoria, and what the DSM misses about ADHD. He has no standalone site, and the articles live on ADDitude, which carries advertising.

AANE

Association for Autism and Neurodiversity · Neurodiversity-affirming service organization

AANE, the Association for Autism and Neurodiversity, is a neurodiversity-affirming service organization with a strong adult focus, which is still rare in autism. It has material and programs for autistic adults, couples where one partner is autistic, people over 50, and adults diagnosed late in life, plus resources for parents and clinicians. It sells coaching and programs, and some are New England-based. If the autism content you keep finding is all about children, this is the correction.

Aaspire Healthcare Toolkit

AASPIRE (hosted by Organization for Autism Research) · Participatory research partnership

AASPIRE is a participatory research partnership, meaning autistic adults helped build it, and the Healthcare Toolkit came out of that work. It gives you worksheets and a personal accommodations report you fill in and bring to your doctor, laying out how you communicate and what you need in an appointment. I couldn't confirm how the personal report is handled for privacy. If medical visits go badly and you can't explain why in the moment, this does the explaining ahead of time.

ADDA

Attention Deficit Disorder Association · Adult ADHD organization

Adults only. The Attention Deficit Disorder Association is the ADHD organization built for grown-ups, not for kids and the parents of kids, which is still rare. You get practical articles on work and careers, peer support, and a route to finding a coach. The articles are credited to an editorial team without a named clinical reviewer. For someone who got diagnosed after the school years were over.

ADHD Evidence Project

ADHD Evidence Project · Hosts the International Consensus Statement on ADHD

The ADHD Evidence Project hosts the International Consensus Statement on ADHD and posts plain-language summaries of new research as it comes out. When someone tells you ADHD is overdiagnosed, or that medication is a scam, this is where the actual evidence lives, written so you can read it without a graduate degree. The posts are unsigned and the operator isn't formally named.

ADHD Foundation (UK)

ADHD Foundation · UK neurodiversity charity

ADHD Foundation is a UK neurodiversity charity with a library of downloadable guides, one set each for families, schools, adults, and employers. They're the kind you can print and hand to a teacher or a manager who has never thought about ADHD. UK readers get local context, and everyone else gets well-built handouts. The news section is thin and many of the resources are older.

ADHD Homestead

Jaclyn Paul · Author of Order from Chaos

Jaclyn Paul, author of Order from Chaos, writes about adult ADHD at home: the kitchen, the marriage, the clutter, the systems that hold and the ones that fall apart. It's lived-experience writing, careful and specific, from a woman running a household with an ADHD brain. The site may be inactive. Adults with ADHD, women in particular, tend to see themselves in it.

ADHD Roller Coaster

Gina Pera · Author and educator; co-author of a couples therapy text

Gina Pera has been writing about adult ADHD and its effect on partners for a long time, and she co-authored a couples therapy text on it. Her blog is unusually literate about medication, how it works, and why treatment matters inside a relationship. She's opinionated, the framing centers the partner, and there are affiliate links. If you're the partner of an adult with ADHD, she takes your side of the room seriously.

ADHD UK

ADHD UK · Charity run by people with ADHD

ADHD UK is a charity run by people with ADHD, and it does adult advocacy in the United Kingdom, with a particular focus on medication shortages and getting assessed and treated through the NHS. If you're a UK adult stuck on a waiting list or unable to fill a prescription, this is the organization tracking the problem and telling you what your options are.

Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN)

ASAN · Nonprofit run by and for autistic people

Autistic people run the Autistic Self Advocacy Network, the leading autistic-run policy organization, and everything it publishes comes in plain language on purpose. The material covers self-advocacy, rights, and identity for autistic adults, with resources parents and clinicians can use to understand what autistic people are actually asking for. It's advocacy, not clinical education.

Autistica

Autistica · UK autism research charity

Autistica is a UK autism research charity that translates what the research finds into language autistic people, families, and employers can use. The site covers autism basics, anxiety, which shows up alongside autism constantly, and workplace accommodations. It's UK-centric. For an employer trying to get this right, or an autistic adult trying to understand their own anxiety.

Black Girl, Lost Keys

Rene Brooks · Adult-diagnosed with ADHD

Rene Brooks was diagnosed with ADHD as an adult and built Black Girl, Lost Keys to write about ADHD as a Black woman, because almost nobody else was. The site covers race, identity, and self-acceptance alongside the everyday ADHD material, from a perspective most ADHD content leaves out entirely. It's been inactive since early 2024. If you're a Black woman with ADHD and you've never seen yourself in this stuff, start here.

Caddac

Centre for ADHD Awareness, Canada · National ADHD charity

CADDAC is the Centre for ADHD Awareness, Canada, the national ADHD charity for the public and the patient-side counterpart to the clinical guidelines. It carries a resource map for finding support across Canada, webinars, and plain explanations of ADHD for adults and parents. For a Canadian trying to find a clinic, a coach, or a group near them, start there.

Caddra

Canadian ADHD Resource Alliance · Professional association; Canadian ADHD practice guidelines

Canada's clinicians work from the CADDRA guidelines, and this site is where those guidelines and the step-by-step practice guide live. It's written for doctors, psychologists, and coaches who assess and treat ADHD, covering diagnosis and medication in the detail a professional needs. Pair it with CADDAC for the public side.

CDC: ADHD

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention · US federal agency

CDC's ADHD pages are built mostly for parents of children: what ADHD is, how it's diagnosed in kids, what the treatment guidelines say, and the national data on how many kids have it. If you need a number for a school meeting, or a plain definition to hand a grandparent who thinks ADHD is made up, this is the source to cite.

CHADD and the National Resource Center on ADHD

CHADD · National nonprofit; CDC-funded resource center

CHADD is the national ADHD nonprofit, and its National Resource Center on ADHD is funded by the CDC to put accurate information in front of the public. The site covers ADHD from childhood through adulthood, with a blog and toolkits on medication, school, and finding support. Start here if you want the baseline facts from a source that has to answer for them.

Child Mind Institute

Child Mind Institute · Independent nonprofit; clinical care and research

Child Mind Institute runs clinical care and research for kids and publishes clinician-reviewed articles out of it. The site is good at the question parents rarely get a straight answer on: whether what you're seeing is ADHD, anxiety, autism, or more than one at once. There's little adult content. For a parent trying to figure out what to even ask the pediatrician.

Design Your Own Website for Free: A Beginner's Guide

Noelle Daoire (beehiiv) · ADHD coach, writing from her own ADHD (per the article)

Noelle Daoire is an ADHD coach with ADHD, and she wrote this about building her own site. Too many choices stopped her every time, so she launched one homepage and stopped there. It's published by beehiiv, a platform vendor, so the tool recommendation is theirs. The advice to start small is what's worth taking. If the site keeps stalling at the builder, read this first.

Edge Foundation

Edge Foundation · Coaching nonprofit

Edge Foundation is a coaching nonprofit, and its posts walk through ADHD coaching concepts, mostly for students and young adults: executive function, study habits, routines that survive a semester. It's practice-based, not research. For a teen or college student who wants to understand what coaching does before trying it, or a parent of one.

Embrace Autism

Embrace Autism · Autistic-led organization

Embrace Autism is an autistic-led organization known for plain-English explanations of the autism screening tests: what each one measures and what a score means, plus research summaries. Late-diagnosed and self-questioning adults land here first, usually at two in the morning, trying to work out whether what they suspect about themselves is real. A self-run screener is not a diagnosis. It's a good place to start the question.

Harvard Adult Autism Health Resources

Harvard · Academic medical source

Harvard's Adult Autism Health Resources is an academic medical source built for autistic adults and the clinicians who treat them. It covers health care as an autistic adult: what to expect, how to communicate what you need, and how clinicians can do better, with medical credibility behind it. It hasn't been updated recently. For an adult who has had bad experiences with doctors, it's something to bring in.

Job Accommodation Network (JAN)

Job Accommodation Network · Funded by the US Department of Labor

Job Accommodation Network is funded by the US Department of Labor to give free, confidential guidance on workplace accommodations to employees and employers both. You can look up accommodations by condition, ADHD and autism included, and see what the law requires and how to ask for what you need. It covers US law only. If you're deciding whether to disclose at work, talk to them before you decide.

Learning Disabilities Association of America

LDA · National organization since 1963

Learning disabilities travel with ADHD more often than most people realize, and the Learning Disabilities Association of America has covered dyslexia, dyscalculia, and the rest since 1963. It serves families, educators, and adults, with material on school rights and speaking up for yourself. The ADHD content is thin. When the reading or math problem doesn't fit the ADHD explanation, look here next.

National Autistic Society (UK)

National Autistic Society · UK charity since 1962

National Autistic Society has been the UK's autism charity since 1962, and its advice library is deep: sections for autistic adults, parents, professionals, and educators, down to specific situations. The just-diagnosed material is especially good, walking a new adult or a new parent through what the diagnosis does and doesn't mean. It's UK-centric, but most of it applies well outside the UK.

NeuroClastic

NeuroClastic · Volunteer-run, autistic contributors

NeuroClastic is a volunteer-run archive of essays written by autistic people about being autistic: identity, sensory life, communication, advocacy, and the parts of the experience clinical descriptions miss. It's opinion and lived experience in the writers' own words, not a textbook, and it may be dormant. For an autistic adult who wants to hear from people like them instead of about them, it's a deep well.

Neurodiversity in Business

Neurodiversity in Business · Volunteer-led charity

Neurodiversity in Business is a volunteer-led charity producing resources and research for employers who want a neuroinclusive workplace, not a poster that says they have one. It's aimed at HR and leadership, with a corporate, UK-rooted perspective on accommodations and what inclusion involves day to day. If your job is making the business case to people above you, this is the material.

NIMH: ADHD

National Institute of Mental Health · US federal agency

NIMH is the federal mental health research agency, and its ADHD pages give you the government's overview of the condition, current treatment, and the clinical trials you could join. Nothing flashy. It's the reference you pull up when you want the official baseline on diagnosis and medication before you make a decision with your doctor.

NIMH: Autism

National Institute of Mental Health · US federal agency

Federal autism research runs largely through the National Institute of Mental Health, and this is its public overview of what that research has found and what services exist. It frames autism as a deficit. Read it for the research summary and the service listings, in the government's own words, if you're an autistic adult or a parent who wants the agency's account.

Thinking Person's Guide to Autism

Shannon Des Roches Rosa; Carol Greenburg · Autistic and parent editors

Shannon Des Roches Rosa and Carol Greenburg, a parent editor and an autistic editor, run Thinking Person's Guide to Autism with a stated mission of countering autism misinformation. It publishes news, analysis, and essays for autistic adults, parents, and professionals who want to know what the evidence says and what the autistic community thinks about it. It mixes advocacy essays with evidence pieces, so notice which is which. When a headline about autism sounds wrong, check it here.

Tilt Parenting

Debbie Reber · Author; parenting consultancy

Debbie Reber built Tilt Parenting as a hub for parents raising differently wired kids, and the podcast is the center of it. The focus is parenting a child whose brain works differently, including twice-exceptional kids who are gifted and struggling at the same time, from a parent who has done it. The written blog looks stale. For a parent tired of advice written for a kid they don't have.

Wrightslaw

Peter Wright, Esq.; Pamela Darr Wright, MA, MSW · Special education law

Wrightslaw is where parents go to learn special education law before an IEP or 504 meeting, built by a special education attorney and a social worker. It explains your rights, the process, and how to advocate for your kid in language a non-lawyer can use. It's US only, the design is dated, and it sells books. Read it before the school tells you what is and isn't possible.

Directories

ADHD Coaches Organization (ACO)

ACO · Professional membership organization for ADHD coaches

ADHD Coaches Organization is the professional membership body for ADHD coaches, and its directory is one place to find one. The site also explains what ADHD coaching is and isn't, which matters, because most people arrive assuming it's therapy or a pep talk and it's neither. Membership isn't a credential check, and the research on coaching is modest. Adults and parents looking for a coach can start the search there.

PAAC

Professional Association of ADHD Coaches · Credentialing body for ADHD coaches

PAAC, the Professional Association of ADHD Coaches, is the credentialing body for ADHD coaching, and its directory lists coaches who have met its standards and earned its credential. The site also publishes the coaching standards themselves, so you can read what a credentialed coach is supposed to know and do before you hire one. It's a self-described credentialing body, not government licensure. For adults and parents sorting trained coaches from self-declared ones.

Tools

Goblin Tools

Goblin Tools · AI tools; operator not named

Goblin Tools is a set of free AI tools built for neurodivergent brains. Paste in a task and it breaks it into steps, then breaks those steps down again if you need it to. It estimates how long things take, and it rewrites a message to sound more formal or softer when you can't tell how your draft reads. Inputs go to OpenAI, so don't enter health or personal details, and the time estimates can be wrong. For the adult who freezes at the start of a task, it's a way around the first wall.